❓Question Why am I so off putting

[sensitive young man]

Why is it everytime I try to talk to anyone especially girls I come off as off putting or weird,I dont think im incredibly ugly I know im probably super insecure deep down from years of bullying, does anyone have any tips or can someone make a guide, sorry if this is the wrong thread

 

[Cel]

Wdym off putting and weird. Do you mean you act like that or they call you that

 

[sensitive young man]

Wdym off putting and weird. Do you mean you act like that or they call you that

Its like they just kill the convo instantly and take HOURS to respond and I dont know if its awkwardness, I did get called weird as a kid alot

 

[Cel]

if you don’t think it’s ur looks it could just be ur social skills after I got a job my social skills go improved a ton.

 

[alex]

maybe a bad rep?

 

[sensitive young man]

maybe a bad rep?

Could be but I was always the bullied not the bully

 

[sensitive young man]

if you don’t think it’s ur looks it could just be ur social skills after I got a job my social skills go improved a ton.

But i dont wanna be a wagecuck

 

[jbg4life]

Its like they just kill the convo instantly and take HOURS to respond and I dont know if its awkwardness, I did get called weird as a kid alot

Maybe its bc they called you the wierd kid and everybody thinks you re wierd. Rumors spread fast

 

[stacy]

maybe they view you in some type of negative way that wont change unless you really get to know them. i personally also view people i dont even know in a certain type of way, but once i get to know them that view changes and i see them as a different person.

 

[eviv]

Why is it everytime I try to talk to anyone especially girls I come off as off putting or weird,I dont think im incredibly ugly I know im probably super insecure deep down from years of bullying, does anyone have any tips or can someone make a guide, sorry if this is the wrong thread

this is an underrated method but try talking to people on ome.tv, it can boost your social skills. It helped me getting used to talking to people.

 

[sensitive young man]

this is an underrated method but try talking to people on ome.tv, it can boost your social skills. It helped me getting used to talking to people.

Bro im not trying to get sexually harassed

 

[eviv]

That’s respectable, I understand where your coming from